January 31, 2008, 12:55am - Moline, IL
Dear Friends,
I am in awe of God. The last contact I had with Coach Smith was
after the Free-Throw-A-Thon last year. However this past summer as
I was going through old stuff, I ran across an article about Coach
dated sometime in 2002. I tucked the article close because it was a
source of inspiration as I looked to embark on my first year as
school counselor and basketball coach. One of my first days in this
position (August 2007) I took the article and diligently cut and
repositioned the words to fit within 8 x 10 pages. Then I hung them
visible right next to my computer monitor. She has been on my mind
daily as one to emmulate as I venture into new professional
endeavors. I wanted to shine as she did with her classy attitude,
dress, hard work, diligence, encouragement to others, inner
strength, faith, etc. Looking back now, I am blessed to know that
she was right there with me.
I desired to talk with her in November as I had a few questions and needed some of her insight. That's when I realized that she was instead working closely with God. My saddness has turned to joy as I know that she is really closer than I think. God's gift to us remains alive as the seeds that she has planted in us continue to grow and thrive in our lives to truly pass the light on to others. Praise be to God!
Michelle Westerdale Bailey '95
Moline, IL
November 14, 2007, 11:11am - Moline, IL
I am devastated. I just tried to find her email address on the website and learned of her passing. She was always so encouraging.
Michelle Westerdale Bailey '95
November 9, 2007, 12:23pm - Auburn, Alabama
I was shocked and saddened when I logged onto Wittenberg's website and learn of Pam's passing. I played high school basketball with Pam at Greenhills High School and had contacted her by email in 2005 after learning on the Greenhills website that she had been voted into The Greenhills High School Hall of Fame in 2004. Pam was a year behind me but we played together on the girls varsity basketball team for two years. I was excited to find out she had continued her basketball career and was Head Coach of your college.
Please pass on to her family my deepest sympathy. I enjoyed logging onto Wittenbergs website to see what one of our own had accomplished. I'll miss you Pam!!
Karen Sullivan Wiggins
September 28, 2007, 8:44am - Blacklick, Ohio
I was quite shocked that I just found that Coach Evans had passed. She had affected me so much in the short time I knew her that I honestly figured that I would have known somehow of her passing--sensed it; felt it. I think now that it wouldn't have been so because her affect on me was so sound that she need not be here on earth to feel it. I played only a short time for her in college but I first met her during junior high and summer camp. She kept in touch and helped me through the transition into college and independence. She never judged but she never waivered from her sense of what was right or wrong; always leading by example. If I tried to say my grades were a problem,she had a desk next to her desk in her office that she gladly offered to sit at while I studied. If I tried to say my health was a problem, she'd set up an appointment for the school doctors. If I tried to say I couldn't do pool practice because I had a cold, she made me run. She never left anything unfinished. Even after I stopped playing for her, she'd check to see how I was doing; she took responsibility for my being at Wittenberg (which is truly why I was there). I found a note from her just the other day that she sent when I went home on break saying that she had heard I'd left my shoes in my locker and she hoped I was practicing. She didn't assume or accuse but still called me on it. That killed me. I still think of her often and try to emulate her. I'm a better person and my life is better having known her. She was so very classy. How lucky I was to have met her.
Vanessa Harmon Gouhin '94
August 27, 2007, 1:58pm - Bethany, WV
I just read in the NCAA news of Pam's passing in July - I was deeply saddened. Pam was an outstanding coach and person - a role model for all young women to follow, both in and outside of athletics.
It is a wonderful tribute that Wittenberg has created with the
schlorship - this way Pam will continue to "teach" for many
generations.
My prayers are with her family and with the college community.
Jan Forsty
Bethany College
August 15, 2007, 9:45pm - Spring Lake, MI
After college I got involved in basketball coaching as a sideline. I became the Varsity girls coach at our local high school here in Michigan about the same time Pam got the Wittenberg job. We met and I was immediately impressed. Over the years I have discussed recruits with her many times. I have personally driven recruits 6 and 1/2 hours to Witt to meet Pam. I felt that strongly about her program. One of my daughters played about 5 games for her in '94. I have followed Wittenberg basketball for over 40 years. Pam Evans Smith embodied every good and positive thing the school and that tradition stands for. We have had tremendous basketball coaches at Witt going back to Ray Mears.... and I don't think anyone has won 400 games at Witt. In 21 years and starting with nothing....that is a fantastic accomplishment. I think the basketball arena should bear her name.......
Randy White '69
August 7, 2007, 11:35pm - Memphis, Tennessee
Over the past month, I have visited this site many times and
each time I attempted to add a reflection. I was waiting for the
right words to come that would allow me to express my deep love and
respect for Coach. I have now realized that it is much easier to
express these feelings through the actions that I take everyday
than through words. There is not a day that goes by that I do not
think about Coach and what she would be thinking about my actions.
I feel so privileged to have had Coach for all four years of
college. She was an amazing woman who shaped so many young women's
lives. She will forever live in the hearts of all of us who knew
and loved her.
Kat Hittle '07
August 1, 2007, 10:41pm - Wooster, Ohio
It is with great sadness to hear of the passing of Pam. She was an outstanding coach, leader, and role model to many young women. Her legacy will live on to all those individuals she has taught in the game of life. In the poem by Linda Ellis, The Dash, the author refers to one's life's actions from beginning to end. "For the dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth." My prayers are extended to the Evans and Smith families.
Lisa Campanell Komara
The College of Wooster
July 31, 2007, 6:54pm -Batavia, Illinois
This past year our daughter was looking at colleges. We live in Illinois, but had heard so many good things about it, that we decided to visit Wittenberg. She wanted to play basketball, so we met with Coach Pam Smith on our visit. We found her to be friendly, kind, caring, nurturing....all qualitites in a Coach that we, the parents, wanted. Especially, since we live 6 hours away! The team came to Chicago and Pam took time out again to meet and greet us. One more trip to Wittenberg just about sealed the deal........however, distance kept our daughter from coming to Wittenberg. We all LOVED Coach Smith and how much she and Roger enjoyed one another. That anyone could see! Wittenberg has certainly lost a great Tiger and a real advocate for the school. Our lives are blessed from having crossed paths with Pam Smith. God Bless her.
Jack, Gail, and Jessica Hinterlong
July 31, 2007, 11:52am -
I am very saddened to hear about Pam Smith's death. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends. She was a great coach and a wonderful person. I was fortunate to have played for Coach (Evans) Smith during her first years at Wittenberg. I will always cherish the memories of the camaraderie of our team and the one big family we became. She will remain in our hearts forever.
My deepest sympathy,
Christine Karl '90
aka Farmer (Chris)
Lady Tiger 1986 - 1988
July 31, 2007, 11:40am - Walpole, NH
Pammy is what we knew her as. I was lucky enough to be a teammate with Pam for one year before she graduated. I remember feeding her inside, game after game as she would make these great little turn around moves just inside the top of the key. I like to think I had a little to do with her getting great stats and earning Academic All-American honors her senior year. I had to pass it to her, she was always open! I also remember fondly having the entire team being dropped off after games, not at our dorms, but at Dee Dee and Pam's house where the parties would immediately begin and there would be many nights of singing into crutches and dancing around the living room to "Celebration" and "We are Family". Pammy was a big part of our Wittenberg experience to be sure. The deepest feelings I have, however, are what an incredible stabilizing force she was for everyone all the way to her final days. I never heard her speak ill of anyone, and she modeled in every way .......
Kim Lewis '85
July 30, 2007, 6:15pm - Columbus, Ohio
I worked with Pam over the last 17 years in photographing the
womens Basketball team at Wittenberg University. I am so sorry to
hear about this great loss. Pam was a wonderful person personally
and professionally. She will be surely missed. Last year I went
through breast cancer surgery, chemo, etc and she was a great
support to me.
I truly feel blessed that I was able to know Pam in her short
life.
My condolences go out to her family and friends.
Maggie Koehler
July 28, 2007, 10:25am - Oakland, NJ
Dear Roger and family,
I received the news of Pam's passing in the Wittenberg magazine earlier this week. I was saddened to hear everything she went through while battling the cancer, but then realized she accomplished more than many of my healthy friends ever dreamed of doing in their lives.
I played on the Wittenberg womens basketball team when Pam and I were freshmen. The team was not a "contender", but Pam always played well and played as a team. She started as a player, became a phenominal coach, and fought for the women's program to grow beyond the original, non-prioritized, "girls' sports program".
I will always remember Pam for her dedication and compassion. She will be missed by so many people. PLease know you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Janet (Ramsey) McPhee '82
July 20, 2007, 6:57pm - Wooster, Ohio
In the spring of 2006 Pam Smith stepped in to coach the Wittenberg Women's Lacrosse Team. This shows what an outstanding person Pam was to take on this additional task while her battle with cancer continued and she just finished a basketball season. Again we would like to thank Pam for stepping up and helping the team during a difficult period.
God Bless,
Conan and Nancy Cupples - Parents
Amber 2008
Hannah 2009
July 13, 2007, 12:08am - Lewis Center, Ohio
It has been overwhelmingly touching to me to read about the life and loves of Pam Evans Smith at Wittenberg. The stories of her strength of character, smiling personality and profound influences on the lives of everyone she came in contact with at Wittenberg (and beyond) are not surprising to me. She was that way -- always.
I spent my time with Pam "pre"-Wit. We went to the same high school in Cincinnati, belonged to the same church youth group and lived in the same neighborhood. (How ironic that when our lives moved on to different colleges that we would both pledge the same sorority!)
It sounds cliche-ish, but Pam was truly a great friend. Besides many wonderful memories from those days, I have some things from her that I cherish to this day. One in particular- My H.S. graduation gift -- A silver bracelet with a shiny engraved charm on it that says "Keep Smiling" -- and on the flip side it says, Love, Pam 1979. I have drawn strength (and spawned a smile) from that simple charm and sentiment many, many times. How appropriate for Pam to engrave the words "Keep Smiling" -- I rarely remember her without one!
I have not had the privilege of meeting Roger or the many people who have written here who were a part of Pam's "later" life, but I do know the Evans family and my heart and sincerest sympathies go out to everyone who was fortunate enough to have known Pam Evans Smith. Her light and her smiles will continue to shine -- in all of us.
Lynn Elcessor Dantuono
July 12, 2007, 10:50am - Akron, Ohio
This Web site perfectly mirrors Coach Smith: While the numbers (wins) are truly impressive -- by my count, 122 contributors from 24 states and Australia -- what's even more impressive is the content.
Bob Dyer
Parent '10
July 11, 2007, 1:52pm - Newport, Vermont
Coach Smith stands for all that is right in sports, and in life. Her warm and caring personality kept my daughters interest high in basketball and gave her a role model. My deepest sympathy to Roger and the Wittenberg community in the loss of coach Pam Smith.
Rick Bruce
July 8, 2007, 5:41pm - Northport, Alabama
Pam was truly a wonderful person. I first met Pam when my daughter, Margaret Grammas Postak, played on her first team at Wittenberg. Pam remained close to all the players. My husband and I both traveled to see all the games the four years that our daughter was there and we have stayed in touch with Pam, thru Margaret. My condolences and prayers are with her family and the many students that will truly miss a great lady.
Doris & Tom Grammas
Parents '91
July 7, 2007, 5:30pm - Springfield, Ohio
Pam was one of a kind. Her courage and strength are far and above anyone I have ever met in my life. The way she kept going on, even when cancer got the better part, and fighting it is a true testament to the woman she was. She was strong, talented, and a very nice person too. I didn't know her real well, but when I worked in food service at Witt and I would come to some of the athletic events, she always spoke, and on several occasions she would sit and talk to me about her latest treatment. You see at one time my sister in law was fighting cancer and Pam would tell me where she should go for the latest treatments and who she should talk to. Unfortunately my sister in law lost her battle also, but I am sure she and Pam are both in a much better place. I will miss seeing her on the bench at the girls games, and talking to her at the volleyball, men's basketball and football games. She was without a doubt one of the greatest assets Wittenberg University had. She will be .
Linda Plank
July 7, 2007, 12:06pm - Fairborn, Ohio
My deepest sincere goes to Roger. I wish nothing but the best for Roger and to the entire family of Coach Pam Smith.
I remember when I met Coach Smith 8 years ago. I first walked into Wittenberg to work my first Varsity Girls Shootout. Garnett Purnell introduced himself and then later introduced me to the "One & Only" Coach Pam Smith. Coach Smith and I talked about how long I have been officiating, her days of coaching and just about life it self. After that conversation with Pam; I felt so welcome by her and I was in Wittenberg for 10 minutes. Eight years later I have worked EVERY single Junior Varsity/Varsity shoot-out regardless the pay ALL because Coach Pam Smith made me feel welcome and appreciated for working.
I have and will always remember Coach Pam Smith for her kindness, caring natured personality and her friendly smile. Coach Smith always seemed to take care of others before herself. In the 8 years I did know Pam Smith; I NEVER EVER EVER heard Pam complain NOR did I know she was going through an illness. Pam lived her life to the fullest!!! I will always remember that.
PAM: you are in a better place. You're in heaven. I will miss seeing you at the Wittenberg Girls Basketball Shoot-outs. You were the ONLY reason I worked them. I will miss you. Our talks, jokes and your concern(s) about when my son was first born last August.
You will always be in my heart whenever I am on the floor.
In Memory of Wittenberg's Greatest Women's Basketball Coach:
Pam Smith "You'll be Greatly Missed"
In Great Sadness...
Victor J Montgomery II
July 6, 2007, 5:23pm - Dayton, Ohio
While we all try to deal with the events of last week, I would like to mention an episode from November 1999.
Even though Pam and I had been friends for over a decade, it was with some trepidation that I called her at home that night. The next day she was to take her team to Chicago for the opening two games of the season. From my experience coaches tend to be very busy at such times. However, my younger sister had just been diagnosed with breast cancer. I hoped, that in a very few minutes of Pam's time, she could give me a name and phone number to contact in the Springfield support group. Pam wouldn't hear of it! She called my sister that night and talked for 90 minutes.
When she returned from Chicago, they talked every night about that day's test or appointment. Her advice and counsel were invaluable.
What more can I say? No one who knew Pam will be the least bit
surprised by this kindness.
She was truly a GREAT lady.
Ron Sortman '72
July 6, 2007, 4:44pm - Santa Fe, New Mexico
I regret that distance prevented me from attending Pam’s memorial service. In the past week I have been reflecting on Pam and all the ways I was fortunate to know her. Years ago my daughter attended her summer basketball camps. Like the other young girls in our community she revered Pam, who functioned as the Pat Summit of Clark County. Even though Laura played her college basketball in New England, Pam continued to ask me about her and retained a sincere interest in her life path. As basketball fans, my whole family enjoyed watching the good teams Pam coached and particularly admired Pam’s coaching style. Working in the Wittenberg library, I interacted with Pam when she brought her human physiology Phys Ed classes in for assistance in locating resources. I was always impressed with the high academic standards she held for this class and the seriousness of purpose of both instructor and students. It was apparent that Pam had very collegial relations with her students.
Kathy Schulz
July 5, 2007, 8:22pm - Springfield, Ohio
My wife, Andy, and I returned to Springfield to participate in the viewing and memorial service for Pam. As a former member of the faculty at Wittenberg for 31 years, I had the opportunity to teach, advise and coach many students during their years on campus. I remember Pam as a student athlete and am grateful for the opportunity she gave me to be a volunteer assistant basketball coach beginning in the late 1980s. I learned a great deal about her as a person, her family and husband, Roger, as a result of the many years Pam allowed me to part of her coaching staff. I wish to share some aspects of her life that might not be commonly known, but which offer further insight into this amazing young woman:
Pam's brother, Robert, mentioned at the memorial service that Pam's occupational goal was to be a doctor, but she never realized that ambition because she could not pass the MCATS. The reason she couldn't pass the MCAT after numerous attempts was because she had a learning disability in the area of reading comprehension. The MCAT is a timed test requiring reading and, at the time when Pam took them, she was not allowed to use oral tapes to help her understand the printed material. I don't know if this has changed with today's MCAT, but it was true for Pam's situation. During her Wittenberg years, Pam did extremely well academically making use of tapes to assist her in the understanding of textbook material. She learned to compensate well for her disability which was unknown to a great many people.
When Pam was diagnosed with breast cancer, it was shocking and devastating to all of us, and she continued to coach the week of her mastectomy surgery when we tried to convince her not to make the road trip. This was an indication to us as coaches and players that cancer was not going to be used as a excuse to fulfill her responsibilities which she held onto in a tenacious manner.
Not long after the cancer diagnosis was known in the coaching community, Pam learned that some coaches were using her health issue as a reason to inform prospective Wittenberg student athletes that they might not want to consider Wittenberg because they would never know how long Coach Evans would be around. When parents of the prospective students mentioned this on campus visits, I became extremely angry with the situation to the point of drafting a letter to one of the college presidents noting my concern about this unethical behavior. Pam read the letter and asked me not to send it. I honored her request, and I realized later that little good would come from it, and the letter would deal more with my frustration and not be of help to Pam. In some cases, she settled the score on the basketball court. I cannot imagine that President Mark Erickson would be pleased if he were to learn that a faculty member or coach would use a health issue in the process of recruiting students to .
My involvement with Habitat for Humanity on campus and in Springfield rubbed off on Pam. She had her basketball players work on Habitat houses, and she worked on both of the Habitat houses built by women in Clark County. Her health did not interfere with her ability to use a hammer and to serve as an inspiration for others who saw her at the work sites.
Pam & Roger, Tom & Brenda Franz, and my wife and I enjoyed many memorable times together on cruises here and abroad and vacations in Minnesota and New York City. I can recall an incident just off Red Square near the Kremlin. Pam was patronizing outside vendors when she realized that she was about to be the victim of a pair of pickpockets. She made enough of a commotion that both parties scattered quickly before she could lambast them with a swing of her purse.
Finally, I want to echo the statements made by Pam's brother, Robert, at the memorial service when he commended his parents for the manner in which they raised their children. Dick and Rose Evans did it right, and they are to be recognized for the fine family they produced and made available to the rest of us.
Pam will be missed by many, and I hope that Wittenberg will provide a suitable legacy in recognition of her professional contributions to students and colleagues as well as to the qualities of her personal life. If I had a daughter who was considering college and athletics, I would direct her strongly to consider being under the tutelage of a coach the likes of Pam Smith. My daughter would not only be well-coached, but she would learn a great deal about how to live a quality life under difficult circumstances.
Jerry Hamilton
Retired Education Prof
Retired Volunteer Assistant Women's Basketball Coach
Proud Friend of Pam Evans Smith
July 5, 2007, 12:17pm - Springfield, Ohio
Pam was my friend and I will miss her. We had several things in common: being faculty members with adjacent offices, teaching the walking class, liking to laugh, and cancer. I liked going into her office in the mornings to sneak a tootsie roll (she knew these were my favorites) which she kept for her players. When the American Cancer Society had their first Bid for Bachlor, I raised $1500 for her so she could have her pick. That was really a funny night. She could have bought 3 bachlors but we decided to give the rest of the money to another group instead. She first hosted our table for the Cancer Luncheon and then I continued it for the next 6 years with our table being the top fund raiser for the last 4; I could always count on her participation to dress up for our theme. When I taught the folk/square dancing class I would always pull her into the hall to practice the steps with me before class; she was rarely "too" busy for me. We liked going to the La Comedia Theather once a..........
Tom and I were on vacation in Oregon for a wedding when we received the news by phone. I had just briefly seen her in the gym before we left and commented on her new hairdo...being in a hurry to go home and pack I didn't stay to chat and now I will not have the chance to spend time with her... my friend is gone. So you see, though Pan wore so many hats, I think the most important one was being a true friend to so many people. I loved her and I will miss her so very much.
My heartfelt condolences to Roger and the Evans- Smith families.
Helen Martin HFS Dept. Wittenberg University
July 5, 2007, 7:49am - South bloomfield, Ohio
I would like to express my deepest sorrorw for the womens basketball family at Wittenberg. Through my four years of basketball at OWU I always enjoyed playing wittenberg, they were tough, disiplined, and had a strong leader. I hope this program continues to thrive as they always have.
Kristin Thompson
July 4, 2007, 10:15am - Winter Garden, FL
It is truly hard to put into words the impact Pam (Evans) Smith had on my life. Supervisor, mentor, and most importantly friend. In my eyes, Pam was family. We had a relationship that began so many years ago as I was a freshman searching for work-study. She had one position open... scorekeeper for her basketball team. The next thing I knew I was on my way to Chicago with a bus full of young women. She allowed me, a young man with no basketball skills, to become a part of her basketball family. Over the next four years, our relationship developed.
I talked Pam into become my fraternity's faculty advisor and she joined the Greek task force. She was so very generous and giving of her time. After graduation, she invited me to her wedding. As I moved away to Florida for graduate school, Pam kept in touch. She continued to offer me words of encouragement and was always available for advice. She attended my wedding and became a great friend to my wife. She and Rog....
We may have all lost a friend and mentor, but we have each gained a guardian angel. Pam will continue to serve as a role model in each of our hearts.
May she rest in peace!
Marvin Snyder '97
July 3, 2007, 4:48pm - Springfield, Ohio
Roger gave me a bookmark that he found in Pam's glove compartment, and he wanted it shared with everyone. Both the poem and the paragraph on attitude tell so much about the way she lived her life. Authors are unknown.
The poem is titled, "Smiles":
Smiling is infectious, you catch it like the flu,
When someone smiled at me today, I started smiling too.
I passed around the corner and someone saw my grin
When he smiled I realized I'd passed it on to him.
I thought about that smile then realized its worth,
A single smile, just like mine could travel round the earth.
So if you feel a smile begin, don't leave it undetected
Let's start an epidemic quick, and get the world infected!
About Attitude: "The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company...a church...a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change the past...we cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude...I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you...We are in charge of our Attitudes."
Pastor Rachel
University Pastor
July 3, 2007, 3:18pm - Rocky River, Ohio
"Having Light, We Pass It On To Others" is the familiar Wittenberg motto. Pam Evans Smith certainly embodied this statement, possessed great light, and passed it on to others. I am and will forever be grateful for the opportunity to play for Pam for all 4 of my years at Wittenberg; as many have said here, her teaching went far beyond the basketball court. And, as a high school biology teacher, I am confident in saying that a piece of Pam Evans Smith touches each of the students that walk through my classroom door each year. My life has forever been changed for having known Pam. She will be missed deeply.
My thoughts and prayers are with Roger, Dr. and Mrs. Evans, the rest of the Evans and Smith families, and the entire Wittenberg community.
May we all strive to continue to "pass the light on to others."
Ann Brokaw '91
July 3, 2007, 8:29am -
Pam was a tremendous influence on my daughter. The first time I watched my daughter coach her high school basketball team, it seemed like a relection of Pam and Wittenberg basketball. Much of Amber's coaching style and mannerisms are patterned after Coach. However, it is truley the character building as a person that I most what to acknowledge. Pam taught commitment, respect in one's self and to others, and kindness. Pam taught with words and with her own actions. Roger, you are in our prayers and thoughts.
Dale and Sally Bishop
Parents
July 2, 2007, 7:57pm - OFallon, IL
Thank you Coach Evans for your long, hard fight against breast cancer. I will carry you in my heart when I walk the Breast Cancer 3 day in August. Thank you for all the memories and the impact you had on the Wittenberg family. My thoughts are with your family.
Kristin Beckstrom Radcliffe '95
July 2, 2007, 5:46pm - Oves
I remember the face from the hallways of the athletic center. When Witt was on trimesters the swim and basketball teams were always stranded on campus during the Winter break so we said "hello" often. She was always pleasent and professional. I am sad to hear of her passing, and know she will be missed. My condolences for her familie's and Wittenberg's loss.
Jeffrey '94
July 2, 2007, 5:35pm - St. Joseph, MN
Very few of you know that I was the head coach prior to Pam becoming the head coach at Wittenberg ... I am deeply sadden by Pam's passing, and I will miss her. We usually chatted once a year at the NCAA Final Four and coaches convention. Pam would always fill me in on what was happening at "Witt."
While at Wittenberg I only read about Pam's collegiate "playing" achievements, but early in my coaching career here she brought her team to Minnesota, and I was so impressed with her and her team. The program was beginning to turn the corner, and it was evident it would not be much longer before Witt was a team among the elite D3 programs.
Pam was "top shelf" both as person and a coach ... if you played for her or knew her you are a better person for it. I hope you will share with your children someday that you knew such a fine person!
Very few of us get to live our dream, but I believe it is fair to say that Pam loved Wittenberg ... thus living her dream!
Mike Durbin
July 2, 2007, 4:23pm - Cincinnati, OH
It still doesn't quite seem right that Coach is no longer here. She has played such an integral role in the past four years of my life. When I came in as a freshmen just four years ago, I could have never imagined the impact that Coach Smith would have in my life.
Coach Smith not only taught me how to be a better basketball player, but more importantly she taught me how to me a better person. She inspired me to work harder, study harder, play harder and not complain about it while I'm doing it. Coach taught me to continue to work hard and give it my all even if things don't go the way I want them to. Coach became my strength when I felt like I couldn't continue something. She motivated me to keep on going. When I looked at Coach I always saw a woman of strength and courage and that continues to inspire me.
I was blessed to have had Coach Smith in my life for the past four years and that she and Roger were able to make it to my wedding three weeks ago and share such a special day with me. Coach has helped to shape me into the woman I am today and words can't express how much she meant to me.
My heart goes out to Roger and all of the Smith and Evans family. You all will continue to be in my prayers.
Coach, I love you and thanks for being such an inspiration in my life.
Tosha Johnson '07
July 2, 2007, 2:05pm - Indianapolis, IN
I feel for Wittenberg during this time of loss. I pass along my deepest sympathy to the University, community and most importantly to all those who knew and loved Pam.
Joe Musgrove
July 2, 2007, 12:25pm - Knoxville, TN
Coach Smith had a way of lighting up a room when she walked in and could put a smile on anyone\'s face. Her love for Wittenberg extended well beyond the basketball court and has made a lasting impression that will live within the Wittenberg community forever. She was and will continue to be a model for us all. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and the Wittenberg community.
Jonathan Scruggs '06
July 2, 2007, 9:52pm - Springfield, OH
Pam,
You have touched so many lives, I can not begin to tell what our
encournter meant to me. I have grown up alot since then and wish I
did not "know it all" when you tried to direct me. Thanks for
experiences I never had before being a Lady Tiger. Danielle
McWhorter Harper #45 Class of 91.
Danielle '91
July 1, 2007, 9:05pm - West Liberty, Ohio
What can I add to the comments that have already been written? I have had the pleasure of working for Pam at her basketball camps since she began running them. I looked forward to return every summer. I don't think that I have ever met or witnessed a more courageous person. I have lost two sisters to cancer and have witnessed what the disease did to them and how it affected their lives. It always amazed me that Pam could undergo a chemotherapy treatment in the morning and lead defensive drills at camp in the afternoon with her normal enthusiasm. I am a better person for having known Pam Smith. My prayers go to the Lord for Roger and the Smith family.
Bruce Schlabach
July 1, 2007, 6:46pm - Springfield, Ohio
Larry and I just attended the memorial service for Pam Evans Smith. We were so touched by the comments made about this wonderful person. Just a few weeks ago, Larry received a handwritten card from Pam saying how much she appreciated his efforts and work in Witt's equipment room.
She was truly a class act. Our thoughts and prayers are with Roger, and the Smith/Evans families as they grieve Pam's loss.
The memorial service was really a celebration of Pam's life and all those in attendance were touched.
Pam & Larry Baldridge
July 1, 2007, 3:49pm - Ashland, Oh
My interactions with Coach Smith were limited through out my time at Wittenberg but they left a lasting impression on me. I will always remember her for her humbleness, dedication, and hard work. Her family and the Wittenberg community are in my thoughts and prayers.
Andy Bucheit '05
July 1, 2007, 2:37pm - St. Paris, Oh
Pam will be missed but she is sitting on the right side of God's throne. Pam will never be forgotten. She was a dear friend to me and my family.
Love and prayers
Wilma & Milton Lewis
July 1, 2007, 2:35pm - Springfield, Ohio
I as a fan of Wittenberg Ladies Basketball am truly saddened by the Loss of Coach Pam Smith. I will always be a Lady Tiger Basketball fan, and will continue to support the Ladies with my presence at the games. Go Tigers
Joy Rice
ports Fan
July 1, 2007, 11:16am - Springfield, Ohio
Coach Smith extended her enthusiasm for the game by inviting my inner-city class to a basketball game. Coach provided the kids and parents dinner and free tickets. Some inner-city families are not able to afford this experience for their children, but coach provided it for them. Thank you for ALWAYS taking the time to care about others. You will be missed by ALL!
Jeremy Ward '05
July 1, 2007, 12:58am - Chicago, IL
I arrived on campus as a freshmen and was quickly informed that I was the second Pam Evans on campus. At first I thought it was a student, then I learned of the great Women's Basketball Coach.
One year I had the pleasure of videotaping a few of the team's games. I figured I should work for the woman I shared a name with. In that season I saw first hand the bond she formed with every player and their family. A bond that was more than coach, a bond that united everyone into her family and her heart.
And one time the shared name came to my benefit when I called security for a jump...they came within seconds because they thought Coach's car had died. We all got a laugh out of that one.
I may always share a name, but I can only hope to leave a legacy like she has. My thoughts are with all of the Wittenberg Community as we share this loss. Most importantly though we must never let the light fade away...the amazing light that Coach passed on to each of us.
Pam Evans '06
(the student)
June 30, 2007, 11:07pm - Kettering, Ohio
It's so hard to know where to start and what to say because I believe it's best to speak from your heart and yet there is such a hole in my heart that its hard to find the words . . .
I first met "my friend Pammy" (as I came to call her) at the Wittenberg basketball camp during the summer of 1987. Over the last 20 years, our teams competed against each other, we worked each others summer camps, we "grew up" as coaches together, we worked cancer camps together, we laughed, we cried, we shared victories and defeats, we went on shopping excursions, we shared our hopes and fears, we "did" lunches and most of all we enjoyed one another's friendship.
She fought cancer throughout the last 17 years with a special courage and valor - never allowing the disease to change the way she lived her life. When she would have chemo treatments, she would be at work that afternoon she always approached it as a minor inconvenience. There are many stories to relate that typify Pam's attitude toward her fight with cancer, but a recent one is a favorite. This past May, Athletes in Action was having their banquet and Kay Yow, the NC State basketball coach who is also battling cancer was going to be in attendance. When I talked to Pam the day before the banquet, she told me that the AIA organizers had arranged for a special 1 on 1 meeting with Kay Yow. She said to me "I dont know why they did that, but that was really nice!" She was always so unassuming and humble!
She was a wonderful wife, daughter, aunt, friend, coach, mentor, and role model - a very special human being that touched the lives of hundreds leaving this world a much better place because of her presence in it.
I will miss our phone conversations, the voice mails or emails that would instantly brighten my day, our trips to the flea market, our lunches, our summer camp experiences, her presence at our basketball games but most of all I will miss my friend, Pammy!
My thoughts and prayers are with Roger, Rosie, Doc, and all of the Evans and Smith family.
Chris Hart '88
June 30, 2007, 8:42pm - West Chester, Ohio
I don't even know where to begin to explain the impact Coach Evans had on me in basketball and in life. When I transferred to Wittenberg my sophmore year, I had no idea what kind of wonderful person I was meeting. She took me on to her team and made me a part of a family. There will never be enough words to exemplify what kind of person Coach Evans was. I grew up with her and seeing her this past February and knowing the battle she was fighting only reassured everything I had learned from her. I can only hope to be the kind of person she was and to always know that whatever I am doing would make her proud.
My deepest sympathies go out to her family who watched us all grow up and to Roger who added so much to her life.
Rhonda (Mathews) Robinson '95
June 30, 2007, 6:40pm - Cincinnati, Ohio
To Roger and the Evans/Smith families: My sympathy and prayers go out to all of you. May the memories you have console you in this terrible time of grief. Coach Evans, I never could stop calling her that, had an enormous impact on my life and coaching career. I never realized how much she cared for us and how much she taught us until I became a coach myself. Her passion for the game was absolutely contagious and her concern for her players was evident in everything she did. I can only hope that I managed to pass on 1/10 of what she taught me during the four years I played for her. When she recruited me to come play for her, I remember that my mother was recovering from breast cancer at the same time she was recovering from her first bout with cancer. That strange connection made me acutely aware of what Coach was struggling with while trying to win championships. It never ceased to amaze me what an extraordinary, courageous person she was to never stop fighting and to nev....
Lee Oder '95
June 30, 2007, 4:10pm - London, Ohio
For three years we watched her coach and give our daughter so much guidence. From 1992 to 1995 it was such a pleasure to watch not only our daughter but the whole team of girls and to watch Pam mold them into the team that they were. She was a great individual and always had the welcome mat out for all of the parents. We certainly loved her and the State of Ohio is going to miss a great person. She was loved a lot. I feel priveliged to have met and known her.
James & Carolyn Mathews
Parents '95
June 30, 2007, 3:11pm - Massillon, Ohio
It is impossible to put into words how much Pam has meant to our family. I remember the first time I had any contact with Pam. Our daughter Shannon was attending Allegheny and we were at some Witt athletic event and in marched a whole group of young women with t-shirts on that indicated they were \"PAM\'S GIRLS\". At that time I had no idea that our daughters, in fact our whole family, would some day all be so proud to say that they too were PAM\'S GIRLS. Pam\'s unending legacy is a tribute to the person she was. We have so many fond memories of our years as a part of the Witt Family. Our daughter Tiffany played for Pam for 4 years and our daughter Shannon was Pam\'s assistant coach. All the trips, the parties, the team meals at our house after the Wooster games, the glad times, and the sad times will never be forgotten. Thank you Pam and Roger for allowing our family to be a part of your Wittenberg legacy. We want to thank Pam for being such a huge influence in helping our daughters become the considerate,compassionate,competitive,and independent women they are today. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Roger,the Smith and Evans families and the Wittenberg family and friends. Pam will always be remembered forever and ever.
Love the Kellers
Bob,Elaine,Heather,Shannon,Tiffany,and Tana
Family '04
June 30, 2007, 11:35am - Pickerington, OH
Pam was the reason I choose to attend Wittenberg University and play basketball. She was so excited about the University and about the game. I have so many great memories. She is the strongest woman I know. I can remember her coming into practices and games after receiving her cancer treatments and you would never have known it. She was a true fighter. My thoughts and prayers are with her family, friends, and all those touched by her. She will be greatly missed. KAT!
Melissa (JayJohn) Diehl '01
June 30, 2007, 11:27am -
Coach Pam Smith shared a kinetic energy that illuminates the human spirit!
In the zone
Heavenly State
June 30, 2007, 11:25am - Springfield, Ohio
I feel so honored to have known and become friends with Pam for the past seven years. Some people go a lifetime and never get to meet a person as extraordinary as Pam, so I am really the lucky one. Even though I knew her only a relatively short time, she will forever have an impact on my life. She was a true inspiration in every sense.
I'll miss you Pam. It's been a privilege.
Beth Wendt
Athletics/HFS Department Assistant
June 30, 2007, 9:33am - Clyde, Ohio
I was saddened to hear the news of Pam's death. My memories of Pam center more on her college days and as a Gamma Phi Beta sorority sister. Even as a student Pam was reflective and had a deep sense of knowing where she was going. She had a quite way of offering help when needed and a quick humor - even during those intense nights of studying in the Big Room. At our senior banquet the juniors wrote humorous prophecies for each graduating senior. Part of Pam's read: "She is the coach of the Wittenberg women's basketball team. In her spare time, she acts as the advisor to all campus honoraries. As the Tigers coach, Pam's goals include: new gym lockers, larger vans, and a seven foot center." These are just a couple of pieces I will remember when I think about Pam.
As I read through the comments, I was touched by the impact and difference she had on the lives of her students and team members. She exemplified the values Wittenberg entrusted to us as we went out into the world by not only preparing for a career but combining that with a passion to make a difference in the world and in the lives of others.
I am grateful for her life. Rest eternal grant her, O Lord.
Catherine Schibler '82
June 30, 2007, 12:18am -
It is with great sadness that I am typing this note. In 1994 I met Pam Smith when I was a young assistant coach for Bill Brown. Pam's love of Wittenberg Unversity, Tiger basketball and her players was obvious from the moment I met her. Roger and the rest of the Wittenberg family please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Chris Wilberding
Men's Assistant Basketbal Coach 1994-1999
June 29, 2007, 9:24pm - Canal Winchester, Ohio
Over twenty years ago, we both came into the Ohio Athletic Conference together. We became friends, worked camps together, toured Europe with the men's basketball team, and Wittenberg went to the North Coast. We still continued to compete against one another in a fierce competitive way. Somehow playing Wittenberg without you on the other side, will not be the same for me. A great competitor, knowledgeable coach, and above all an amazing fighter, and classy lady. I will miss you and so will Division III basketball.
Dixie Jeffers
Capital University
June 29, 2007, 8:534pm - Chesterland, Ohio
My wife and I were immeasurably saddened to hear of Coach Pam Evans Smith's death. Pam was not only a great coach and the personification of the best that Wittenberg had to offer, but she also gave us something that will forever remain in our hearts, a daughter transformed.
My first remembrance of meeting Pam was transporting my daughter to Springfield on a dismal winter day to meet with Coach Evans. It was clear from the outset, the mood she presented was a positive view of, "We can get this done." This was a woman that could be trusted with our daughter.
What we received in return four years later was a brave and confidant young woman, instilled with a passion to win and a tireless energy to pursue her goals. The four years at Wittenberg had made a world of difference, and the biggest part of that difference was the influence and example of Pam Smith.
Though we are saddened to hear of her passing, we know the world is a better place for her having been here. Her legacy will live on in the hearts and minds of those she has touched and nurtured along the way.
Mike & Linda Kolbe
Parent '99
June 29, 2007, 7:14pm -
My memories of Pam are of someone who never gave up. Whether it was a close game, or life battles in general, Pam was a fighter. I knew Pam for many years and will always cherish my time with her. My deepest condolences go out to Roger and her extended family. You will be missed, but never forgotten.
All my best,
Jim Dabbelt
Executive Director
The Dabbelt Report
June 29, 2007, 6:50pm - Richmond, IN
I was deeply saddened by the news of Pam's passing. As a former basketball coach, I knew Pam to be an oustanding coach. I also had the pleasure of knowing her as an athletic administrator. It is no secret that the passion Pam possessed for basketball extended to her love for women's athletics as a whole, advocating for all women's sports in the NCAC. I will miss Pam at our "gender specific" table at our NCAC meetings.
Her battle against cancer will serve as a reminder that no challenge is too big to take on and that adversity only makes us stronger.
On behalf of Earlham College Athletics, our thoughts and prayers go out to the Smith and Evans families as well as the Wittenberg community.
With deepest sympathy,
Jill Butcher
Associate Director of Athletics
Earlham College
June 29, 2007, 4:15pm - New London, NH
Sad is not a strong enough word to express how I feel at this moment, having just heard of my dear friend Pam's passing. A classier, more compassionate, kind hearted and hard working woman you most likely will never know. I feel blessed to have had her in my life. We played ball together, considered what we would do with our lives together, laughed and cried together during the over 30 years we have been friends. She went through her first round of cancer treatments just prior to being a bridesmaid in my wedding, and her strength and humor about the process was...Pam. She will be more than missed, the world has suffered a great loss in her passing.
To all those who were fortunate to have shared her life with her, especially to our former team-mates at Witt, and most especially to Roger and her familiy, my deepest condolences. May we all strive to continue to live the way she taught us...with passion, purpose and always hope.
Beth (Walsh) Swanson '84
June 29, 2007, 4:12pm - Delaware, Ohio
It has been a difficult few days for the Wittenberg Family.
While many knew of Pam's fight against cancer, she didn't let us think about it. Her courage, tenacity, and incredible strength always won.
I was a student when Pam arrived at Witt and had several friends on the women's basketball team. In a short time, she turned around a struggling program and made it the enviable program it is today. She gave the women of her early teams a great deal of pride in their sport and themselves. Just as the many thoughts on this page say, that was Pam. Not only in basketball, but in all of life.
Since my college days, it has been a pleasure to serve on the Athletic Hall of Honor Committee with Pam and to watch her teams play some great basketball. She was not only a coach, but a friend and mentor. We will miss her wisdom and vision.
Pam was a true servant to Wittenberg and to women's athletics at Witt. She will be missed in more ways than we can imagine.
My sincere condolences go to Roger, the Evans and Smith families, and all who loved Pam.
Tiger Up!
Brenda Shaw DeWitt '89
June 29, 2007, 3:39pm - Gainesville, VA
I was so shocked to log on to Witt's home page today and see that Pam had passed away. I'll always remember her as someone who created a turning point in my learning career. After taking Pam's class for the first day I stopped wondering "do I have to know this for the test?" and started saying "this is really cool, I want to know more".
My favorite memory of Pam was a morning when we were doing maximal exercise testing and I was aparently fairly dehydrated from going out the night before. After sprinting up and down the stairs many times and doing as many push ups and sit ups as I could I passed out. When I came to Pam was holding my feet on her belly and asking me what was wrong with me after she had listed all my symptoms (we had just studied heat exhaustion the week before). I had to laugh. She had a great sense of humor and she always had a way of making the things we learned in class "real".
What a wonderful legacy she has left Wittenberg. I'm sad that I didn't get a chance to thank her. Pam made her classes so interesting that I decided to get a masters degree in exercise physiology after leaving Witt. She was quite the inspiration.
I guess maybe God needed some basketball lessons for his best angels. Thanks Pam for all you were to all of us.
Ginger (Rusk) Carroll '90
June 29, 2007, 3:09pm - Springfield, Ohio
In my mind and experience Pam Smith represented the very best of what Wittenberg is and the quality of people we have as graduates. Pam modeled for our students, male and female, how a professional woman can use both her intellect, her feminism and her interpersonal skills to create a remarkable career in a traditionally male field or any other.
Pam's coaching success speaks for itself, but it was her understanding that balance and variety of experience is valuable for college athletes, especially in Division III, that impressed me. She knew that building skills beyond the athletic ones is especially important for 18-22 year olds who are not likely to be pro athletes but will be the coaches, corporate employees or representatives, teachers, commentators etc. of the future.
Pam's willingness to work on committees, to support and attend other campus groups' effort was greatly appreciated. She encouraged programs which allowed athletes and non-athletes to consider college issues together and share perpsectives. She saw our athletes as students and members of our community first rather than members of their specific team, academic major or even Greek house. She helped them to understand the need for balance and develop it in their lives by allowing them the freedom to make their own choices and expecting them to be responsible for those decisions. She empowered others to achieve at the highest level possible for them.
Her players' comments tell of her coaching style and their responses to it, but the way she faced the real adversity of her long illness with style, modesty and perseverance have taught all of us who knew and worked with her so much too. We are all better people for having known Pam Smith for even a little while. I hope her legacy will be that we and our graduates will follow the wonderful examples she has given us.
May the Evans and Smith families, fellow coaches and teams find comfort in knowing that her battle is over, and how much we shall all miss her at Wittenberg.
Shelley Reynolds
Director of Greek Life, Wittenberg University
June 29, 2007, 12:38pm - Cincinnati, Ohio
I will forever REMEMBER Mrs. Pam Smith because she offered me continued encouragement and enthusiasm when I had none in myself. After I took a physical education course with her, I thought I would merely become one of the many faces she has seen throughout years on the Wittenberg campus, but that was far from the truth.
Every encounter I had with her after the course was as warm and supportive as my previous experiences as her student. Seeing her smiling face every now then amoung the campus hollows remained a constant reminder to me to always smile in the face of obstacles, regardless of what they may be.
For her kindness and selflessness, I will FOREVER BE GRATEFUL
My Deepest sympathy to her FAMILY & CLOSE FRIENDS
Lora Younger '08
June 29, 2007, 10:32am - Rhode Island
On behalf of the Riker family we would like to send our thoughts and prayers to Roger and all of Pam's Family. Pam was more than a great coach and inspirational leader she was a caring friend who reached out to me and my family many times over the years. Coach's courage and strength have been and always will be an inspritation for me as a person and a coach.
We are visiting family in Rhode Island and are very sorry to not be on campus sharing with the Wittenberg and Springfield community during this time of grief, but also rememberance of Coach Smith's legacy. We are there in spirit with all of you who have been lucky enough to have known and been touched by the life and energy of Coach Smith.
Norm Riker
Wittenberg University
Women's Soccer Coach
June 29, 2007, 9:13am - Springfield, Ohio
It seemed strange to walk into the HFS/Athletic Department yesterday and see Pam's door open and knowing she would never be sitting at her desk again. She was always there, ready to talk to students, deal with administrative issues or discuss coaching concerns. Even when it was difficult for her to walk those stairs to the office she never complained or asked for help. I cannot think of anyone I have known who demonstrated more courage than Pam Evans Smith. Many appropriate things have been said and written about Pam's ability to coach, teach, mentor and advise, yet to me it was her attitude to life and adversity that made her special. Pam will be missed more than she would ever imagine.
Our prayers, thoughts and condolences go out to Roger, and the Evans and Smith families.
Steve/Debra Dawson and Family
Men's Soccer Coach
June 28, 2007, 11:06pm - Greenville, Ohio
Wow... I have just read through many of these memories of Coach and I don't know how I can say it any differently.
When I think about Coach I think of strong, compassionate, dignified, inspirational, and wonderful. She is all these things and more. She was the reason I came to Witt, and the reason I played/worked so hard just to make her proud. She was and always will be an inspiration to me. I saw her as invincible because ever since I knew her, she was having treatments and fighting this monster we call cancer. She showed no fear and no weakness. No matter how bad she felt, she never let on and never missed a practice or game in the four years I spent at Witt. She made me work harder than I thought I could and fight through pain just to play on that floor for her. Knowing how strong she had to be day in and day out fighting this illness made me want to be a stronger person. Coach accomplished so much in her life. She will be carried on by all of the things that she taught us girls on the court and off. You will always be remembered Coach!
Tiger Up Witt!
Carrie Jones '06
June 28, 2007, 9:04pm - Atlanta, GA
I will always remember and be inspired by so many things about Coach... her quiet confidence, her presence, her ability to motivate individuals in different ways, her intensity, her calmness under pressure, her courage, and her overall approach to each day. Coach was and will always be an inspiration to me and so many others...she will be greatly missed. My love to Roger, all of her family, and to the Witt community.
I am proud to have known and learned from such an amazing woman...
Anne Johnston '00
June 28, 2007, 9:02pm -
The Russ family wishes to express our deepest sympathy to the Evans and Smith families. To everyone touched by the life of Coach Smith - may we never forget her legacy and her spirit.
Rebecca Russ '03
Daniel Russ '06
Kathy & Chuck Russ
June 28, 2007, 5:09pm - East Lansing, MI
Coach Smith was beautiful inside and out and has been a friend and colleague for many years. From the time of her first diagnosis 17 years ago to the time of her passing, she fought a courageous battle with an amazing attitude. Her gifts were many and the lives she touched were numerous. She is now pain free with the best seat in the house. She touched my heart and she will be missed. I send my sincerest sympathy to Roger and all other family members and to the Witt Family as well. Pam's legacy will be present in all of our lives.
With sympathy
Shelley Appelbaum
Sr. Associate AD, Michigan State University
June 28, 2007, 4:45pm - Cincinnati, OH
Pam was an amazing person, leader, coach and friend. She was my sport oversight for three years while I was coaching at Wittenberg and I am so honored to have known her and to have worked with her.
She had this amazing way about her on so many levels. She was competitive and fiesty on the court, yet always fair to her co-workers, employees and student athletes. She had the ability to stay positive no matter what --- looked at the bright side, and found solutions to challenges.
I have not seen Pam in person since she & Roger came to our wedding two years ago; however, I am happy that the last memory I have of her was her smiling face and kind words on the best day of my life. I will never forget all she did for me as a person, coach, and friend. Thanks Pam. You will be greatly missed.
My heart and prayers go out to Roger and the rest of the family.
Love,
Leslie (Ramsey) Wenert
Former Head Men's & Women's Swimming & Diving Coach
('01-'04)
June 28, 2007, 4:19pm - St. Louis, MO
Coach Smith was truly one of the most outstanding women I have ever met. She truly embraced her role as teacher, mentor and friend - not just with her players but the entire Wittenberg community. She made each athlete feel important, that we were worthy of her time and acknowledgement. A simple hello, how's class or good game from Coach was enough to make you hold your head a bit higher. She will be missed dearly by so many and I pray that the courage she possessed throughout her life will continue to be an example for students and athletes to come, it certainly will for me.
I'm saddened by the loss of an amazing woman, coach and role model but I know "Pevans" legacy will continue to live on. I regret that I never had the opportunity to play for her, but I feel truly blessed to have been able to call her my friend!
Coach, Roger, their families and friends, as well as the entire Wittenberg community, is and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Lisa Severino Crissman '02
Tiger Volleyball
June 28, 2007, 4:14pm - Mechanicsburg, Ohio
After attending one of Coach's summer basketball camps as a youngster, I knew that I wanted to attend Witt and play basketball for her because of her deep passion and love for the game. After having become a Tiger and playing for Coach, I learned that the same passion and love she had for the game of basketball she also had for life. She was, and will continue to be, an inspiration to everyone who has been fortunate enough to know her. I send my deepest condolences to Roger, the Evans and Smith Families, and the Witt Community.
Amanda Lewis '04
June 28, 2007, 3:50pm - Cincinnati, OH
When I think about Coach I think of all the lives she has touched and influenced. There are countless women that played for her that will forever remember the coach, friend, and role model she was to us. She exemplified love, determination, courage, and respect every single day at practice no matter what the circumstances were. She expected nothing but the best from her players and held us to a standard that was second to none.
The respect we have for her as her players is immeasurable. We yearned to please her in every facet of life. We would run 16 in 60s and Big Tigers so hard that we couldn't breathe to impress her, we would dive across the court on loose balls to hear "great hustle" and meet her expectations, we would go straight to her office when we would get a good grade on a paper to celebrate with her, and still after college we would call her to tell her how we got offered a new job just to make her proud. In every aspect of our lives we constantly tried to meet the standards she set for us as individuals which in the end made us better people. Coach mastered the art of molding girls into more dignified, confident, stronger women that truly believe they can accomplish anything that is set before them. Now she is the woman that we will strive to become. With her in our hearts forever we will live each day trying to impress her and making the most of our lives for her. Rodger, you are in m.
Coach, you are a fantastic woman, we are all so proud to have been apart of your team, and you will truly be missed.
Alison Nahrup '05
June 28, 2007, 3:35pm - Fort Worth, TX
I was saddened to hear of Pam's passing today. She was a great ambassador for the University and for Wittenberg athletics. We lost a great "Tiger" today and our prayers are with her family.
George Keen
June 28, 2007, 3:11pm - Springfield, Ohio
The past year at Wittenberg has been a wonderful experience for our daughter as well as our family, and as we look back on it, we realize it is in large part due to Pam Smith's ability to make everyone feel like family.
The Wittenberg Women's Basketball Team is a very close knit group that developed such deep devotion and caring for one another it was amazing to witness. We are thrilled our daughter has been a part of that experience. Thank you Coach Smith, for instilling such wonderful qualities in so many fine young people.
Your legacy will live on for a long, long time because of your players, their families and the many, many people you touched in such a positive way.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family and all the lives that Coach Smith touched so lovingly though her years at Wittenberg.
The Vasileff Family
Bill, Kay, Kellsea (2010), Cole and Jamie & Joe Barker
Parent's '10
June 28, 2007, 2:37pm - Springfield, Ohio
I had the privilige of meeting Pam during my junior year at Witt when I was enrolled in one of her Phys. Ed. classes, and went on to take another class from her before I left Witt. She always had a smile on her face, and stopped to say hello and see how things were going, when we would run into each other across campus. Pam and Roger live in my neighborhood, and I actually saw her about two weeks ago, walking her dog, as I was checking my mail, and it was good to catch up with her again.
I didn't know her as well as many of the other people who have posted comments here, but as I read the memories you have all shared there is no question that she was a remarkable person, and that Wittenberg, and the world has lost a great person.
My thoughts and condolences are with Pam and her family (both Evans/Smith and the Wittenberg Family).
Arif Mirza '05
June 28, 2007, 2:25pm - Phoenix, AZ
Coach, to hear a "nice hustle" from you or any other encouragement was like gold to me. Reading all of these entries makes me realize all over again how truly blessed I am to have been coached and mentored by you for those 4+ years. Thank you for all of your christmas cards. Thank you for all of the team meals and Christmas get-togethers at your home. Thank you for touching so many peoples' lives not just by your words, but more importantly by your actions. Roger, my love and prayers to your family and you.
Love,
Meg Gaydos '02
June 28, 2007, 2:08pm - Dayton, Ohio
Pam led by example, encouraged with love and lived with strength. The young women she coached stand up straighter and face the world with courage because she showed them how. We will be forever grateful.
Dwight and Georgie Woessner
June 28, 2007, 1:55pm - Germantown, Ohio
From the time that I first met Pam in Middle School in Greenhills she was a warm and caring addition to the day. She was fun, smart and athletic (before it was cool for a girl), but most of all just a great person! It has been many years since I have seen or talked to her or any of the Evans Family, yet I would like to wish God's peace at this time.
Pam can live on in each of us that have been touched by her.
Jim Hoffman
June 28, 2007, 1:51pm - Cincinnati, Ohio
I had many coaches throughout my sports career, but Pam Smith is the only one that I simply call Coach. She was an amazing person that inspired me everyday. Through Coach Smith, I learned dedication and courage. In addition, I believe it was playing for Coach Smith that I really became passionate about basketball. Playing for Wittenberg was more than a game; it was the creation of a special family that only my teammates can understand. Her excitement for the game spread to me and all my teammates and will remain with us. I am very thankful that Coach and Roger were able to spend the last week in Mexico to attend my wedding. It shows an amazing commitment for her players that she was willing to gather her strength and travel to celebrate with me and my family. She was the most honored guest present.
I will continue to pray for Roger, Pam’s family, and the entire Wittenberg community
Amber Bishop '04
Player 2000-2004
June 28, 2007, 1:48pm - Springfield, Ohio
I was saddened by the loss of a true champion and a colleague. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Pam was an inspiration and admired professional. She will be missed by many as she played a role in the development of everyone she touched.
She is leading the charge for another team.
Craig Penney
Men's and Women's Head Track Coach
June 28, 2007, 1:35pm - Collegeville, PA
Our family would like to express our deep sorrow at the passing of Pam. As parents of a Wittenberg female graduate athlete we are honored to know Pam. Our daughter Kati a former Witt field hockey and lacrosse player has had the privilege to work in the athletic department for Pam and is currently the women's lacrosse head coach. Pam set very high standards for her student athletes and her coaches, I know that all will continue to strive to honor her by working hard both in the classroom on the fields/courts and most of all to stay strong and carry on Pam's legacy as a true WITT TIGER.
God Bless Pam and her families.
Michele and Dick Robbins
Parents '01
June 28, 2007, 1:28pm - Bexley, Ohio
As a colleague for 5 years, Pam was a mentor and true friend to many of us who had the privilige of working with her at Wittenberg. We\'ve talked a few times through the years and even though she was battling for her life, she was always calm and reassured us that she would be fine as she fought this battle. Her passing leaves behind a tremendous void in the Wittenberg community and basketball community. My family and the Capital University family extends our prayers and best wishes to the Smith and Evan\'s families in celebration of her wonderful life.
Damon Goodwin
Capital University
June 28, 2007, 12:57pm - Columbus, Ohio
Coach Evans, Smith was a great inspiration to my children Marvin(97) and Kristie(00) while they were at Wittenberg University. She remained a close friend of our family especially our son Marvin. He got the opportunity to keep the book for her team while he was at Wittenberg. I always thought of her as a surrogate mother to him. She always kept him under her wings and in the loop. We just saw her when she visited our son in May of this year. Forever strong and never complaining I will remember her. My thoughts and prayers are with Roger and her family and friends. She will be greatly missed.
Kathy Snyder
Parent '97
June 28, 2007, 12:50pm - New Haven, CT
Coaching is a profession that not only allows one the rare opportunity to shape students lives, but also to be an inspiration to colleagues. Pam was that person to me. Always a kind word and a wonderful smile, no matter the season or her personal struggle at the time. I coached against Pam in her early days at Witt and continued to watch her career in awe as the wins stacked up and the lives she touched changed forever. If all coaches could share just a piece of her courage, her inner strength, her integrity, the world of sport and beyond would be a better place. She will be so sorely missed, but always remembered. With thoughts and sympathy to her family and the Wittenberg family,
Amy Backus
Yale University
June 28, 2007, 12:48pm - McKinleyville, CA
Nancy and I send our heartfelt condolences to Roger, to the Evans family, and to her close friends and colleagues in the athletics and physical education departments. We share in the grief and sadness for a woman whose life was much too short, but we also give thanks for the privilege of having known her. Pam Evans Smith was in every sense a true Tiger. She brought to her life and to her battle with cancer the same tenacious commitment to winning that all the great Wittenberg coaches have made part of the Tiger tradition. Above all Pam was a role model, not only for her players and for her colleagues, but for all of us who seek to lead balanced and meaningful lives. Whether facing great personal adversity or celebrating moments of triumph with her players, Pam seemed never to have lost sight of the things that really matter.
Chuck Dominick
Vice President of Advancement, Retired
June 28, 2007, 12:44pm - Springfield, Ohio
I feel very fortunate to have had the contact I had with Pam over the past several years and especially working on academic integrity. Her dedication and considerable contribution to that effort, largely unsung, seems representative of how Pam worked--quietly, tirelessly, behind the scenes, and never really needing or wanting recognition for her efforts. She gave to the committee designing Wittenberg's honor code even as she coached and taught and fought illness. This is only a small part of her legacy--we see the real measure of her legacy as these reflections pour in. We see it in her players' and students' devotion to and affection for her. We've lost a part of the heart of Wittenberg that cannot be replaced. My deepest sympathies to her husband and family.
Scot Hinson
English Department
June 28, 2007, 11:27am - Springfield, Ohio
Dear Lord, today we give thanks to you for the gift of love and for Pam who showed so many of us how to love one another. Pam's energetic life filled with so much athletics accomplishments, yet she made time for each individual. Lord we are thankful your love never dies, our love for Pam will remain everyday here on campus and in our hearts forever. Amen
Kenny Lake
June 28, 2007, 11:25am - Springfield, Ohio
I truly believe Coach Pam Smith's greatest legacy is in each and every one of her family members, her former players, and her colleagues. It is a great testament to her memory that so many phone calls, e-mails and communications have been circulating upon hearing of her passing. Individuals who may have not spoken together for years took the time to seek out companions and reflect on memories with Coach and express the grief associated with her loss. I truly believe Coach would be proud to see and hear "her kids" all talking and sharing memories, just as siblings do, reflecting on their time at Wittenberg and with her.
Coach Smith always spoke of family in the basketball program--many coaches do, but few actually achieve the never-ending network of current and past player support and the loyalty that Pam Smith so richly enjoyed and deserved.
For me, personally, she always had time for my family and my concerns--even when her own struggles were far more vital and pressing. This characteristic shaped and defined her program; she cared more for others than herself and modeled this for her players at every turn. I am thankful that she no longer has to battle her illness and experience pain, but unlike her, selfishly, we shall all miss her presence and her impact.
God Bless Roger and of Pam's family--our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Chad Mason and Family (Carrie and Drew)
Asst. Coach and friend
2000-2007
June 28, 2007, 11:19am - Springfield, Ohio
I was saddened to hear of the passing of Coach Pam Smith. I have known Coach for a number of years, both as a player and more recently as an assistant coach for two seasons at Witt. During the time I was fortunate enough to spend with Pam, she never ceased to amaze me. Her professional demeanor and work ethic was unlike any other I have ever met. She was a remarkable woman with an amazingly big heart and I shall miss her dearly.
Becky Leonard
June 28, 2007, 10:56am - Pittsburgh, PA
It is easy to say that Pam "lost" her battle with cancer, but the fact is she beat the pants off of it for so many years, far longer than most of us could under similar circumstances. And the fact is she got more out of life in these last 17 years than most of us are capable of, or inspired to do, in our entire lifetimes. Her courage and determination was amazing and inspirational to everyone who knew her. Pam is a genuine giant in Wittenberg University history and has has left it a far better place than when she first entered in 1978, and impacted it in ways that 95 percent of folks will never know as so much of what she accomplished was one-on-one and behind the scenes. Forget the victories, which were numerous. She was a champion in her life, which was far more important and she should serve as role model for every individual in how to live.
Alan Aldinger
June 28, 2007, 10:49am -
It is very difficult to find the proper words to express my sadness upon learning the news of our loss of Pam. I had the pleasure of seeing her as a young lady make her mark on Wittenberg as a student athlete in the late '70's and early '80's. She arrived on campus with a lot of character, maturity, and drive. She quickly established herself as a terrific student and a special athlete that was all about working and winning. As I am sure has been documented she had a tremendous playing career at Wittenberg. A few years later Pam returned to Wittenberg to Coach and teach. It was easy to tell she was very special and that she was going to have a wonderful career and impact upon Wittenberg and the lives of many whom she would touch. She possessed so many great qualities. So humble, talented, professional, sincere, determined, caring, passionate, and courageous. Pam's remarkable accomplishments, presence, courage, and influence reach far beyond Wittenberg University and ..
My deepest condolences to Roger and to the Smith and Evans Families.
Larry Hunter
Former Wittenberg Coach
June 28, 2007, 10:47am -
My heart is filled with sadness and grief for the Evans/Smith families, and the entire Wittenberg community for this horrible loss. I had the honor of working with Pam during my time as the Field Hockey Coach at Wittenberg. Her mentoring and leadership were invaluable to me as a young coach. Her competitive spirit and love for the Tigers reached well beyond basketball, she always knew the big wins and big games for the field hockey team. Women coaches don’t have many mentors, and she was among the best. I can not imagine my time at Witt without her guidance. I was so privileged to have her insight and feedback for those years. Her impact on me went well beyond coaching and has stuck with me long since leaving the Wittenberg community. One of the strongest women I ever knew, she never complained, stuck to her word, always worked hard and truly led by example everyday.
My deepest condolences,
Marianne (Beshara) Flannery
Former Wittenberg Head Field Hockey Coach
June 28, 2007, 10:39am - Crawfordsville, IN
I was terribly saddened to receive a phone call from my father this morning letting me know of Coach Smith's passing. As a young coach myself, I can only hope to command the respect of my student-athletes and colleagues the way she did. Her success speaks volumes, and I hope everyone takes a moment to think about the little things that she may have taught them over the years. Coaching is not only about success on the court, on the playing field or in the pool...to me it is about mentoring, teaching good decision-making and providing an environment in which young men/women can learn and grow as a human being. Coach Smith had it all. Although I only had the opportunity to work with her while looking for a new swimming and diving coach in 2004, everyone knew Coach Smith. She was a fighter until the end.
Kyle Dunaway '04
June 28, 2007, 10:39am - Delaware, Ohio
Pam (Evans) Smith was my colleague during my 5 years at Wittenberg. Even as I moved away from Wittenberg she remained a friend to my son and myself. It was always a pleasure to share some time with Pam at various meetings, gatherings, and basketball games, even if it was only be a few minutes. Pam touched and influenced so many lives on and off the court basketball court, she will be missed deeply.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Roger, the Evans Family, the Wittenberg and NCAC Communities.
Pam was truly a one of a kind person. May we all be blessed in knowing her.
Our deepest sympathy,
Cyndi and Connor Holliday
Head Women's Volleyball Coach
Ohio Wesleyan University
June 28, 2007, 10:28am - Springfield, Ohio
We only knew Pam through her summer basketball camps, which my daughter participated in while in middle school. But we were very impressed with the way she ran her camps and interacted with the girls. She was a positive motivator who could infuse her enthusiasm for basketball into young hearts and minds. And you could see that she really cared about their progress and well-being. Good people - good teachers, coaches, mentors - are hard to replace. Pam Smith will be missed. Sincere condolences to her husband, and to all who knew and loved her.
Chris Cochran
June 28, 2007, 10:23am - Cincinnati, Ohio
Pammy never had kids, so she took her role as cool aunt to heart. For years when we were younger my brother and I looked forward to every summer when she came down for the day and we went to the Beach Waterpark. My brother's first car, and the one he still has, was her old Explorer that she took such good care of.
When she married Roger we knew that we'd have to share her a little more but he fit right in to the family. The day I knew he was a keeper I think was throwing the football with him at Myrtle Beach. There will never be two kinder, more genuine people, than Pam and Roger, and I can't believe she is gone. I can still hear her voice in my head teaching me how to cheer at basketball games.
Although it doesn't seem life will ever be back to normal without her, it's a comfort to know that she's not in pain anymore, and that she had so many people in her life that loved and admired her. She'll be missed terribly everyday.
Amanda Evans
June 28, 2007, 10:19am - Round Rock, TX
Dear Coach -
You were my positive influence. You were the way I wanted to be. I
wasn't your best player but you always made me feel like I had
unending potential. You believed in me. Thank you for all the
talks, all the dinners, all the support. Thanks for inviting me to
your wedding, for making me a part of your family. My favorite
memory was when you were a guest lecturer for my Psychology of
Women class in 1999. You told your life story - your mother's
battle with cancer, your cancer. Even as you told the personal
details and brought tears to our eyes, the right side of your mouth
would curl up into a knowing smile - like you already knew the end
to your story - and not to worry - it would be a happy one. You
have a legacy carved in metal and glass, mounted to the walls of
Wittenberg. But also, you have a legacy of daughters - women who
will miss you, who will try to live a better life because of your
influence. With love, #23, Liz Kramer Pratt, class of 2000.
Liz Kramer Pratt '00
June 28, 2007, 10:08am - Tampa, FL
Pam was a wonderful person and an excellent coach. She was a friend to all and a coach who cared about doing it the right way. Although I haven\'t been back to Witt but a few times, I have had a chance to talk with her infrequently and as always she was warm and giving. The coaching profession, her friends and former student athletes will miss her. More importantly, the future student athletes she would have touched will miss out greatly. Our prayers are with her. We know she\'ll be watching over us.
Sincerely,
Dan Hipsher
June 28, 2007, 10:03am - Springfield, Ohio
That Woman is a Success
Who has an appreciation of the world around her and of her unique
place in it...
Who has the capacity to give of herself and to accept graciously
the gift of others...
Who has a commitment to both her work and the time she sets aside
for play...
Who has the enthusiasm to welcome each new day with warmth and joy
and love... Author Unknown
She was an amazing women and will be missed by all who came in contact with her...I know my life is richer having known her and serving with her as a member of the Wittenberg community and on the credit committee.
Go in peace my friend and may God bless your family in the days ahead...we will miss you.
Cookie Hageman & Family
June 28, 2007, 9:26am - Springfield, Ohio
Pam was a source of inspiration and courage to many of us who while not involved directly in athletics could admire her work, accomplishments, and life from a distance. I always thought of her as this remarkable teacher who was emblematic of what is wonderful in those who work with youth. As someone who has had the pleasure of also teaching many of the young women under her care, I could not help but be amazed by her power and influence. Coach Smith taught us all about dignity and what it means to live life fully.
Bob Welker
Professor of Education
June 28, 2007, 9:06am - Ada, Ohio
The Ohio Northern University Athletic Department would like to express our most sincere and deepest sympathies to the Smith and Evans families and the entire Wittenberg community. Pam was a very classy woman who sincerely welcomed my volleyball staff and players to each Wittenberg Volleyball tournament or NCAA Tournament matches over the years. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kate Witte
Head Volleyball Coach
Ohio Northern University
June 28, 2007, 8:31am - Berea, Ohio
It is very difficult to come up with the right words to express all that Pam Smith has meant to so many people. Although I never had the opportunity to sit down and get to know Pam the person, I had several opportunities in professional settings to get to know Pam. She was such a class act.
On regional conference calls she was always a voice of reason, insightful and fair. As a competitor she always had her teams incredibly well prepared. She conducted herself, and led her team, with the highest level of sportsmanship. As an opposing coach, you knew your team better play well because a Wittenberg team coached by Pam Smith team was not going to beat themselves. They were going to compete and come at you with everything they had. They reflected their coach...
On numerous occasions I told others that I was amazed at, and admired Pam. She would be right there on the sidelines a day after chemo treatment. She was out recruiting, probably the least desirable part of the job, regardless of what she was going through personally. She was the consummate professional in all that she did.
She was obviously an outstanding role model to the many young women who played for her and those who had the opportunity to work with her. I'm certain that the world is a better place for the positive impact she made on so many lives. She exemplifies what coaching and teaching is truly all about. It's not about wins, which Pam had lots of, it's about making a difference. Pam made a huge difference in this world. The coaching community has lost one of the best in every facet of the profession.
My condolences to all of her friends and family.
Cheri Harrer
Baldwin-Wallace College
June 28, 2007, 7:02am - Wooster, Ohio
It is with sadness and regret to learn than Pam has left us - she was a model for coaches and physical educators to emulate. Pam's passion for coaching and teaching will be missed by players, coaches, colleagues, and fans. She was a friend, a competitor, a leader, and a great coach and administrator. The College of Wooster Fighting Scot family extends our most sincere sympathy to her family. We will miss her, but will take pause in our sadness and smile as we know she is already guiding another team to victory and greatness on the courts in the Heavenly League.
Keith D. Beckett,
Director of Physical Education and Athletics
The College of Wooster
June 28, 2007, 3:33am - Shakopee, MN
When our daughter left Shakopee, MN to go to Wittenberg is was a huge decision because we knew we would no longer be able to go to all of her games. Coach Smith had an immediate impression on our daughter and except for a few little twinges of homesickness it was the right decision for her. I remember her very first game, which we were able to attend, in St. Louis, when after playing her first five minutes as a college player, Coach said OK, you are no longer a freshman. Our daughter stepped up to the challenge, not because she thought she was good enough but because she thought Coach thought she was good enough. Coach (Evans) Smith did have a profound influence on our daughter and we know she models much of her life and coaching style after her. We are so sorry no more women student-athletes will have to privilege of playing for Coach Smith. May her soul and the souls of the faithful departed, rest in peace.
Maetta & Fred Jurewicz
Parents of Sarah J. Jurewicz, Lady Tiger '94-'98
June 28, 2007, 12:30am - Ft Myers, FL
Pevans was a good coach but man if you think her basketball stats were good, you should see her stats on life!! See she not only taught the game of basketball, she taught the game of life. She led by example, how to treat people, how to react in negative situations and how to be strong. She cared not only about the basketball player on the outside but the individual on the inside. She molded hundreds of young girls into incredible young woman who their families can be proud of. She created a family that we are proud to say we were a part of!!! We are a family and she was our fearless leader! I got to talk to a lot of my "family" today and while I was talking to Coach Mason I realized..Coach has got to be proud of the "families" that she made over the years and she would be proud of the fact that we still talk or e-mail each other. Although her passing was a dark cloud, the sun came out as we all talked of the good times or told funny stories! Yeah, we are lucky to .
To my Witt family, it's time to Tiger Up!!!
Jen Smith (Smitty) '02
June 28, 2007, 12:05am - Delaware, Ohio
It is indeed a tremendous loss that we, in the basketball world, must realize. Pam Evans Smith was one of the finest professionals, administrators, educators, coaches and human beings in higher education. The liberal arts provides an avenue to expand areas of our lives that we may not have otherwise known. Pam Smith created an atmosphere conducive to optimum motivation and development of the total person. She was an incredible coach and fierce competitor. Her teams were relentless in pursuit of excellence. Her teams displayed her attitude in this pursuit. She was an astute colleague.
But, most importantly, Pam Smith was a leader. She worked in the "big picture" and provided many young women avenues to pursue their passion of competition in a very challenging academic environment. Pam offered expertise beyond the North Coast Athletic Conference. She served on many WBCA committees as well as providing insight and leadership to NCAC basketball. I remember one competition where Pam was too ill (from her cancer treatment) to coach on the sideline......it was my least favorable memory of games against Wittenberg. Win or lose, it was a privileged to "shake hands" with Pam at the end of the "battle".
I will sorely miss that privilege.
Ohio Wesleyan Women's Basketball will hold Roger, the Evans and Smith families in their thoughts, prayers, and actions.
With due respect and deepest sympathy,
Nan Carney-DeBord
Women's Basketball Coach
Ohio Wesleyan University
June 27, 2007, 11:55pm - Columbus, Ohio
Pam was an inspiration to both our son, Marvin(97) and our daughter Kristie Snyder(2000). Marvin worked for her for his four years at school, and was also very good friends with Pam and Roger. Kristie played for Pam. We just saw Pam and Roger in Florida at the Golf Store our son works at, just a few weeks ago. Roger our families heart goes out to you, and our prayers will be with you and Pam. Marvin and his family are in Brazil, and Kathy and I are on vacation, so we will not see you, even though our hearts and prayers will be there. Marvin will feel so bad that he will not be there! Pam was one special individual, and we as a family have the utmost respect and special thoughts of her!! Marvin and Kathy Snyder and Family, Marvin, Denise, Kristie, Vicki, and all our grand children.
Marvin Snyder
Parent '97
June 27, 2007, 11:22pm - Cincinnati, Ohio
If ever the qualities, winner, champion, perseverance, determination, honesty, and caring exemplified a person, they certainly did of Pam. She was always a hard worker and determined to succeed at whatever she did. Whether it was school work, athletics, or just living, Pam gave it 110 percent. She was disappointed when she didn't get into medical school, but life has a way of working out and those qualities brought her to where she was truly meant to be, coaching a sport she loved at a school for which she cared deeply. It seems somehow appropriate that she would end up at Wittenberg, home of the Tigers, since she certainly demonstrated a fighting, strong spirit.
As exemplified by her career record, she was able to turn her players and the women's basketball program into champions, and along the way, achieve milestones no other team/school has equaled.that extra 10 percent. As the reflections on this page can attest, she has had a positive impact on countless players, coaches, teammates, colleagues, and families, over her exceptional career. Although she never had children of her own, she helped raise hundreds, if only for the time span of a college education.
Champions often overcome great odds to achieve success. I believe those same qualities are the reason she was able to fight her cancer for so long, and not let it stop her from fulfilling her commitments. Before this last round of chemo, she and Roger were able to go to Mexico to attend a wedding of a former player. It had been a long time since she had been in the ocean, and she was so excited to go. By all accounts, they had a wonderful trip, and I like to think it was a last gift to her for all the pain, hospital visits, etc. she had to endure over the past 15 or so years. I also like to think that Roger also played a big role in helping her cope during her long struggle. I know he spent many a sleepless night in the hospital with her as did her father and mother. I am grateful that Pam and Roger found each other and were able to have over 10 years together.
On behalf of her family, our thanks go out to everyone for their thoughts and prayers in this difficult time. All of us loved her very much. Hopefully, she is now in a place where turnovers don't exist and every basket is an easy dunk. She has earned it. We'll miss you, Pam.
Scott Evans
Cincinnati, Ohio
June 27, 2007, 11:16pm - Delaware, Ohio
It is with great sadness that we received word of Coach Smith's passing. The entire Ohio Wesleyan athletic community joins the Wittenberg community and Pam's family as we grieve her loss. As an assistant women's basketball coach for Ohio Wesleyan in the early 1990's I watched our Ohio Wesleyan women's teams compete against one of the finest coached and most professionally run programs in the nation. Pam's influence reached far beyond basketball and Wittenberg University. The highly professional manner and class with which she ran her program quickly became the standard to which all North Coast Athletic Conference athletic teams strived to achieve. We will miss her greatly and will be forever thankful for her demonstrating the right way to do things. God Bless Pam and her family.
Roger Ingles
Director of Athletics
Ohio Wesleyan University
June 27, 2007, 10:28pm - Springfield, Ohio
I'm sorry to hear the loss of Pam Smith I knew from doing a summer camp for her a couple years back, but she was a very kind-hearted and caring person and very sweet woman. But her kindness showed how she was as a person. And that is what I'll what I'll remember about Coach Smith the most.
Brett Bibb
June 27, 2007, 10:28pm - Wooster, Ohio
I am deeply saddened to hear of the death of Coach Smith. This is a terrible loss for the Wittenberg community as well as the NCAC and D3 athletics as a whole. My condolences to Coach Smith's family and loved ones and all who have been touched by this wonderful person.
David Collinge
Devoted fan of NCAC athletics
June 27, 2007, 10:10pm - Akron, Ohio
We only knew Pam for a relatively short period of time, but that was more than enough time to know she was a bright, genuine, straight-ahead person who cared deeply about her players, both on and off the court. She was also one tough woman. Who else could kick cancer's butt for 17 years? We will miss her terribly, but she will always have a place in our heats.
Bob and Becky Dyer
Parents '10
June 27, 2007, 10:09pm - Dayton, Ohio
Where to begin...first and foremost my thoughts and prayers are with Pam's family.
We have lost a truly remarkable woman. Pam defines the words of strength, perseverance, and character. I remember when I first came to Wittenberg in 1998, as she was one of the first few people I met. Her smile, and love of life is what I'll remember the most about her. I enjoyed the opportunity I had of sharing an office next door to her, sharing stories, going to lunch with the "girls" and just talking about our seasons. I have learned so much from Pam about life. Pam is and always will be my hero. She would hate to hear me say that, as she is such a humble individual, but her influence on me as a person and as a coach is greater than any words I could ever write.
Our department, and our campus community will never be the same, but to everyone who knew her...we are better people because of her.
Becky Hall
Head Women's Softball Coach
June 27, 2007, 9:56pm - Cincinnati, OH
Thank you, Coach Evans.
I not only spent four wonderful years playing for her, I also had the pleasure to work in her office for three of those. I got the chance to know her even better than I did on the court during those years and am grateful for her guidance, friendship, care, and compassion. Coach Evans was truly an exceptional person and I am lucky to have known her. I will forever remember her humor, drive for success, and loyalty to her players, family, and Wittenberg. She truly exemplifies what we all hope to be or become in our lives.
To all those I played with...those before me and after...for Coach...KAT!
Joanna Sears '95
June 27, 2007, 9:44pm - Springfield, Ohio
My association with Pam was through our connections in the North Coast Athletic Conference. As a Faculty Athletic Representative at Ohio Wesleyan University, I grew to respect Pam not only as a tenacious head coach but also as a insightful colleague in the conference. She will be missed especially by those of us who looked forward each year to sharing stories at our special table at the annual spring meeting. We remember fondly her tales about her trip to China. We send our thoughts and prayers to her husband and all our colleagues at Witt as they mourn Pam's passing and celebrate her life.
Joan E. McLean
FAR
Ohio Wesleyan University
June 27, 2007, 9:30pm - Springfield, Ohio
I had the great pleasure and reward of watching Pam coach from the best seat in the house. I have the great privilege of announcing the Zimmerman Tournament (and predecessors) for several years as well as some regular season and post season contests for her. Pam was exacting, demanding, and always wanted the best from her players. When I say "demanding", she extracted from her players performance levels the individual never though they could achieve. Big shoes to fill? You bet. She allowed her achievements to do her talking. When I called my first game for her, I asked which nickname she preferred, thinking (foolishly), she'd say "Lady Tigers". Not Coach Pam, her response was "Tigers"; just as she will always be a Tiger. God Bless Coach and Thank God you are now cancer free.
John Finnegan '65
Sports Fan
June 27, 2007, 9:28pm - Middletown, Ohio
Pam's courage, tenacity, and love for her team never wavered through many years battling her illness. We were blessed to have known her and have our daughter mentored by her.
Tom & Cathy Bruggeman
Parents '03
June 27, 2007, 9:02pm - Springfield, Ohio
When I was diagnosed with breast cancer four years ago, Pam was the first "survivor" to call me with reassurances and encouragement. Her ability to live each day to the fullest, despite her discomfort and fatigue, has been an inspiration. Pam was a life coach to all!
Susan Backus '71
June 27, 2007, 8:43pm - Holland, MI
I met Coach Smith for the first time in 2003 when I was working with Summer Conferences and helped check in her camps. Her warmth and calm demeanor made her one of the best people to work with. Watching her work with her students as well showed how truly gifted she was. Coach Smith will certainly be missed.
Amber Sibley '05
June 27, 2007, 8:43pm - Massillon, OH
Coach Smith truly was one of the most amazing people I know. Every quality about her exemplifies a person of the highest character. Having spent four years with her, like many know, leaves an unforgettable mark on your life. She has influenced me in so many ways. I strive to have the grace, spirit, compassion, strength, and courage that she had on a daily basis. Coach Smith had a special way to make you believe in yourself and to get you to accomplish goals set with the highest expectations. Coach will live on inside each one of her players because of the woman she was. Honestly, words do not do justice. As for our loss, there is no way to express how it feels. My family's prayers go out to Roger, Coach's family, and the Witt family- because that is what we are, a family and Coach was our guide!
Tiffany Cocklin (Keller) '03
June 27, 2007, 8:38pm -
Coach Smith was one of the most inspirational individuals I have ever had the opportunity to meet and become friends with. Her constant struggle with cancer, yet her optimistic attitude about her life will forever be a memory for me. It is difficult to put into words what Coach Smith meant to me, but I do know that whomever had the opportunity to know her will have a beautiful guardian angel watching over them. She is in a better place, and I am sure she will continue to inspire us all in many ways. Coach, I will miss you.
Robyn Heaton '05
June 27, 2007, 8:32pm - Cincinnati, OH
As a volleyball official, I had the pleasure of working with Pam as she was usually our scorekeeper for the home matches. As basketball official, I had the pleasure of working for her. She was always the consumate professional in dealing with me as an official. If she was questioning something, she usually had a valid point.
This is a tragic loss for the athletes, the staff, and the community of Wittenberg. My condolences to her family and the Wittenberg family.
My first officiating fee from Wittenberg University for the 2007-8 volleyball season will be donated to the American Cancer Society in her memory.
Michael P Rolfes '92
June 27, 2007, 8:03pm - Urbana, Ohio
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Roger, Pam's parents, and the Wittenberg family at the loss of a very special person. Pam was an exemplary model of a teacher/coach, always committed and focused on the lives of the young people she served. Many lives, including our own, have been positively impacted by her friendship, integrity, and determination.
Dr. Carl and Nancy Schraibman ,99H
Athletic Director, Retired
June 27, 2007, 8:03pm - Erie, PA
Pam Smith, in a way, played a big role in both the beginning and the end of my Wittenberg career. She was the first coach that I ever met while working for the athletic department, and the relationship built that day lasted throughout my four years at Witt. I am proud to say that I worked with Pam and and for Pam, and enjoyed every moment I got to speak with her, whether it was on air after a game or simply in passing. She gave me so many opportunities to be a part of her basketball family, and I will forever be grateful. It seems odd now that the last member of the faculty/staff I spoke to and hugged before graduation this May was Pam - an embrace and farewell I will never forget, much like the person who gave it.
Josh Cohick '07
June 27, 2007, 8:02pm - Springfield, OH
I never had the pleasure of knowing Ms. Pam Smith but I have heard many wonderful things from classmates that were on the basketball team. In some cases it was if she was a surrogate sister to these girls. May God Bless you Pam and your family. Our next coach will have a very hard time filling the shoes that you left behind.
Jacqualine Champion '08
June 27, 2007, 7:28pm - Springfield, OH
So many of us lost a good friend in Pam Smith. On our first meeting, I felt we would make a great team leading Wittenberg's Athletics Department. She was the first person I ever met who shared my date of birth (month and day). Always a voice of reason and a calming force when things did not always go the way I/we wanted or had hoped. A sounding board for me when I needed to share ideas, find solutions or resolve a problem. A team player who always had the best interest of everyone even if she was disadvantaged. A great friend, teammate, administrator and coach and I will truly miss coming down to the office and plopping down on the red chair and saying "What do you think about this or that". I will never forget the time we shared.
My prayers go out to Roger and the entire Smith and Evans family. May God Bless you through this difficult time.
Garnett Purnell
Director of Athletics
June 27, 2007, 7:08pm - Springfield, Ohio
Pam Smith was a one-of-a-kind person. Her athletic accomplishments are well known by many, but those of us that worked with her each day also knew the Pam who loved to bake. She made an incredible sugar cookie! We also knew the Pam who loved to get a group together and go out to lunch. She was an athlete and coach, but also a devoted wife, colleague, and friend. I will always remember Pam as a person who was determined to live life on her terms, regardless of her circumstances. I witnessed her dedication to Wittenberg Athletics each and every day and marveled at a woman who could continue to give. Her presence here will always be felt and forever missed.
Cathy Smith
Fac/Staff
June 27, 2007, 6:40pm - Columbia, MD
Coach Evans (Smith) will forever be in our hearts. She touched my life and other Wittenberg athletes in many ways. Those who had the chance to know her and or play for her are forever changed and she will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with Roger and her family.
Megan Jude '00
June 27, 2007, 6:11pm -
Pam Evans Smith is and will always be my coaching idol. I had the wonderful honor to be an assistant coach for her from 1989-93. She gave her all to everything she did. Her work ethic was phenomenal. She has touched the lives of so many including myself. As I look back on my time at Witt, I look back with fond memories. I feel like one of the lucky ones who got to spend time with Pam. She is one of kind and I will miss her. My thoughts and prayers go out to Roger and the Evans family.
Jeannine Ruh
June 27, 2007, 6:05pm - Mackay, Australia
It's so hard to think that Coach is gone. She is the epitome of courage and was a tower of strength. She was a fighter, tremendously motivated and highly competitive. She was a wonderful coach and an even better person. She made every single one of her players a better person and left a tremendous legacy. We will miss her dearly, but we will remember her smile, her laugh, her kindness, her grace, and love that she shared for each of us. Pam Smith is a legend and will always be a champion in my heart. Remember her spirit...GO TIGERS!
Soupie '03
June 27, 2007, 6:01pm - Massillon, Ohio
Coach Smith truly was one of the most amazing people I know. Every quality about her exemplifies a person of the highest character. Having spent four years with her, like many know, leaves an unforgettable mark on your life. She has influenced me in so many ways. I strive to have the grace, spirit, compassion, strength, and courage that she had on a daily basis. Coach Smith had a special way to make you believe in yourself and to get you to accomplish goals set with the highest expectations. Coach will live on inside each one of her players because of the woman she was. Honestly, words do not do justice. As for our loss, there is no way to express how it feels. My family's prayers go out to Roger, Coach's family, and the Witt family- because that is what we are, a family and Coach was our guide!
Tiffany Cocklin (Keller) '03
June 27, 2007, 5:40pm - Plymouth, MI
Words cannot express my sadness at the news of Coach's passing. I had the good fortune of having Coach as a mentor, and over the years she has proven to be an incredible inspiration to all that knew her. I have a profound respect for Coach Smith and all that she stood for, all the she achieved, and the way in which she changed the lives of many young women who were fortunate enough to play basketball for her.
Ironically enough, Silvia Bonometti (4 year Tiger Basketball & Class of 1998) passed away exactly 6 years ago to the date of Coach Smith.
My heart-felt sympathy goes out to Roger and the rest of the Smith/Evans families. May God comfort and be with you all in your time of grief.
Kate Mackie
Alumni
June 27, 2007, 5:07pm - Colorado Springs, CO
The reservoir of loss is immeasurable. Reading the words of the people here on this reflection memorial is an appropriate sampling of how she impacted an innumerable amount of lives.
Coach (Evans) Smith enabled me to discover an intrinsic part of my competitive spirit. She lived a life of determination, compassion, loyalty and unselfishness that has been a template after which I have modeled much of my life.
My kindest and deepest thoughts of love and sympathy to Roger, the Evans and Smith families and the entire Wittenberg connection of friends.
I will miss you, Coach.
In Tiger Spirit,
Sarah J (Say-J) Jurewicz '98
June 27, 2007, 4:11pm - Sarasota, Florida
Coach Evans (I can't help but remember her as that) was one of the most influential people in my life. Much of what I am today can be attributed to the woman/coach she was and always will be to me. She was the type of person who made you want to work harder so that you did not disappoint her. She held you to a high standard but she held herself to an even higher standard. The Wittenberg Community and specifically woman's basketball has lost one of the good ones. My heart goes out to her family, especially Roger. Coach Evans Smith will always hold a special place in my heart.
Beth Green Bender
Class of 1994
June 27, 2007, 3:39pm - Oberlin, Ohio
From the Department of Athletics and Physical Education at Oberlin College, we express our deepest sympathies on the passing of Pam Smith. We saw Pam as a wonderful colleague, a fierce competitor, and a beacon of sportsmanship. She set the finest example as a coach and administrator in the North Coast Athletic Conference.
We will miss Pam and wish the Wittenberg community our best during this difficult time.
Joe Karlgaard
Oberlin College
June 27, 2007, 2:18pm - Pickerington, OH
It is difficult to write just how much Pam Smith has meant to me and my family. In the seven years that I had the pleasure of working on her staff, I have been amazed at what type of person "Coach" is and how she treated the people she came in contact with. She is by far the most self motivated person I have ever met and I owe so much to her. She treated me and my family with great respect. Roger and Pam are the perfect fit for each other and my families prayers go out to Roger and her family. The Wittenberg community has lost a great coach, but more importantly, a great person. She will be sorely missed.
Phil Sikorski & Family(Lisa, Miranda, Andrew &
Maddie)
Asst Women's Basketball Coach
Class of 1988
June 27, 2007, 2:41pm - Hanover, NH
Pam Smith was not only a wonderful coach but a wonderful person as well. My daughter Gina played four years under Coach Smith at Witt and Pam mentored these girls in every aspect of their lives, not just on the basketball court. She cared for them, loved them and got after the girls as if they were her own children...the girls loved her and their hearts are broken losing such a significant person in their lives. We are so grateful for the 4 years Gina had with Coach Smith and will miss her deeply...Our thoughts and prayers are with Roger and the Wittenberg Tiger Community...God bless and keep her.
The Carney Family
Class of 2007
June 27, 2007, 2:29pm - Columbus, Ohio
Pam will be deeply missed. I will miss her joyous presence around the office, being able to pop in and chalk talk with her or just stopping by for a chat. Pam has definitely taught me what it is to be strong, determined, and passionate about what you do and how you live. My son AJ loved the moments of sitting in Pam's lap and playing on her computer as I do not let him do that at home, so I know he will miss those moments when he comes to the office. My prayers go out to the Smith family as they mourn the lost of a true friend.
God Bless!
Artie Taylor
Fac/Staff
June 27, 2007, 2:09pm - Silver Spring, MD
Pam will be greatly missed. Not only was she a great coach, but also an icon in the Wittenberg community. We will keep her family, players and friends in our thoughts and prayers.
Apryl Walker
Class of 2001
June 27, 2007, 1:26pm - Loveland, Ohio
Pam Evans Smith was more than a coach to our daughter Haley Jane Warden. Pam tutored her in her classwork, kept on her to sharpen her basketball skills and made Haley a better person. She encouraged Haley to coach and now Haley is the Assistant Varsity coach at Wyoming High School. We told Pam that the girls would come back even stronger in 2003 and they did. The trip to Maine was wonderful. The girls played great and beat Messiah. The trip to China was just incredible. Haley would not have been named NCAC Player of the Year in 2004 if it had not been for Pam Smith. We love both Pam and Roger and our thoughts and prayers go to Pam's family and Roger.
Karol and Jon Warden
Parents Class of 2004
June 27, 2007, 1:16pm -
Pam was and will continue to be an outstanding role model for all of us. Her integrity, dedication, honesty, love and concern for others are attributes that she exemplified in her daily contacts with us.
I shall miss seeing her when I return to campus, her friendly hello and a hug always made me feel most welcome.
A faithful servant is now at rest with God. Well done thou good and faithful servant.
Dean Richard Scott
June 27, 2007, 1:15pm - Crestview Hills, KY
I would like to extend my condolences to the Smith family and
the rest of the Wittenberg community. It was a pleasure getting to
know her during her trips down to Thomas More, and even more of a
pleasure to watch her coach. Her intensity for the sport never
wavered and its a huge loss not only for Wittenberg, but for
women's basketball.
Sincerely,
J. Ameer Rasheed
Sports Information Director
Thomas More College